I felt like a failure.
For years, I had been trying to keep up with a world that never quite fit me.
I worked hard, tried to find jobs that would be approved of, while ignoring my true talents, and pushed myself to find “success”—but deep down, I felt exhausted, misaligned, and like something was wrong with me.
As I entered my 40s, I started questioning everything…
Why couldn’t I hustle like the others?
Why didn’t the traditional life path work for me?
Why did I feel so lost, even after doing “all the right things”?
Burnout, bitterness, anxiety, depression, hormone imbalances…
I thought, “if I wasn’t achieving, where did my worth come from?”
I carried a heavy load of chronic self-doubt, low self-esteem, and really, I just felt completely disconnected from my purpose. I felt shame around who I was.
I was hearing whispers coming from deep inside of me telling me of a better way, but I didn't trust that voice. I trusted the voice from our cultural narrative instead.
The watershed moment when everything changed:
That’s when I discovered Human Design—and learned that I’m a Projector by design.
Suddenly, everything made sense: I wasn’t lazy, broken, or behind – I was simply designed to live and work differently.
I saw how I’d been living in a way that ignored my true nature, and how I was completely misaligned.
Time to Own my Unique Gifts & Create Success on my Terms…
Since then, I’ve embraced the unique gifts revealed in my chart and learned how to create success that didn’t burn me out or feel hard.
Through Human Design and the Quantum Alignment System which uses EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) /tapping), I began to heal the old stories that told me I wasn’t enough, releasing the shame, and embracing new powerful stories of who I am.
I learned to honor my energy, stop chasing someone else’s version of success, and align with my own.
I finally came home to myself.
Now, I help others—especially Projectors and those burned out by hustle culture—do the same:
Heal. Align. Thrive.
You don’t need to work harder. You just need to come back to yourself and your own rhthym.
More specifically, I love latin dance and you’ll often find me on a dance floor in my home town, or in Central America. This part of me was reawakened during a trip to Guatemala a few years ago, and I've been turning the volume up on it ever since. Dancing puts me in touch with my sensual and passionate side.
Whether it be a walk in the nature preserve close to my house, camping, paddling my SUP, sitting by a lake, or taking a wilderness adventure, I need to disconnect from the “doing-ness” of the world (no defined sacral here). Taking this time, even if it's mid-day when I'm "supposed" to be working, frees my mind, and it's usually when the next inspirational idea comes in that I'm meant to share. Then I'm inspired to work.
When a topic interests me I want to learn as much as I can. These are areas where I have deep wisdom, but I need a solid foundation before I start sharing it with the world. I wait for the right timing and pay attention to my Strategy & Authority to know when to share my wisdom with others.